What Does it Mean to Love God?

Jesus said that the first and greatest commandment is, “Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all they soul, and with all thy mind.” It begs the question, what does it mean to love God? In some way, I think we all intuitively know the answer to this question, but there are still a few things to be said.

If you search the Bible for passages related to the love of God, you'll quickly notice a pattern. Our love of God is intimately tied to our obedience and service to Him (Joshua 22:5, Heb. 6:10, 1 John 2:5, 5:2). This is not merely talking about staying away from sin, but also discipling others, helping the needy, preaching the gospel, etc. If you look at Heb. 6:10 it describes ministering to brothers and sisters as a “labor of love toward God”. This is how it should be. Our love for God provokes us to serve Him, to love those that He loves, and to act as his hands and feet wherever He sends us.

But then, how do we grow in love for God? What happens when we just don't feel it? Do we go off and listen to some emotionally manipulative 'worship' songs? Is that how we stir our hearts up for the Lord? I think the answer lies in an examination of the deepest Earthly love – marriage. In Scripture, we see that marriage is intended to be a picture of our love for God and His love for us. It makes sense then that this picture can help us understand something of how we develop our love for God. Let me get practical. Men, what do you do when you wake up and you don't really “feel it” in your marriage anymore? Or what about when you and your wife argue about something and you're frustrated? Sometimes your heart just isn't into it, and in those times more than ever it's important for your head to lead your heart. So, you spend time with your wife, you watch a movie, you play a game, whatever it is that you do. You determine to love her, to be kind to her, and to serve her. Then a funny thing happens, your heart comes around again and you want to do those things. Not only that, you once again love your wife with your whole being.

Our love for God works in a similar way. You can't just manipulate your emotions into a lasting kind of love. Instead, you draw close to God by doing the thing you know that He'd like for you to do. You pray, read Scripture, serve others, etc. Especially when you don't want to. If you determine in your mind to love God and serve Him, it won't take long for your heart to come around.

The real danger that I see is when people let their emotions run them, instead of the other way around. It's as dangerous to your relationship with God as it is to your marriage. In marriage, this can lead to an unhappy home, unfaithfulness, or divorce. Spiritually, it can cause you to be “tossed to and fro, and carried about with every wind of doctrine”, or to be firmly rooted in a place that you shouldn't be just because it feels good.

In conclusion, both the head and the heart are necessary for loving God, but the heart must not be the one to lead. Our love for God is not entirely different from other relationships and is especially similar to the love between a husband and wife. Finally, service and obedience are fantastic ways to draw closer to the Lord.